Being a student is a great role with a lot of responsibilities as people spend a majority of their early years in education. It is important that you should spend your student years confidently and build a mentally strong attitude to come out in flying colours. Here are five things that mentally strong students don't do, something that everyone should learn from.
A ranking system basically gives way for jealousy among students. But a mentally strong student knows that the competition is for the welfare and does not pave way for jealousy and disappointment. If someone fares better, such students make efforts to learn the better things and appreciate it rather than back bitching and trying to pull down their counterparts. They will have competition but not rivalry.
Although arrogance is an output of too much of confidence, (confidence being a good thing), over confidence will lead you into a quick sand. Strong students know their worth but do not attempt demeaning their classmates who do not study well. They instead try to nurture them by helping them with their lessons and grow along with them. Treating well a person in their tough times will not just gain you their loyalty but earn you good points when you go down in life's cycle.
Mentally strong students never make others responsible for what they undergo. Everyone gets to have a down side at some point in life, even a topper can lose their rank and come to a lower rank but strong students dont shift the blame for their misfortune on others just to escape from their faults. They accept their short coming and work to correct it than wasting their energy in finding a blame cat.
Finding excuses is a quality of the lazy and weak. Mentally strong students fight out the challenges and convert them into opportunities than excuses. They do not give reasons for failure but create ways for winning. Successful people dont do different things, they do things differently!
Change is something that is unchangeable. When pushed out of comfort zone like having to give a tough exam, mentally strong students do not shy away from change or stay put within a confinement. They are willing to move out of their zone and take up what may come their way.
Most of the times, won't power means more than will power. Won't power is saying no to bad things. Also, while these donts can get you closer to success, confidence and hard work combines can help you get 100% results. Wishing all the students a mentally strong attitude!